Hello Everybody!
How are you today?
Sometimes when we are learning a new
language it can be really frightening to start speaking it with other
people. We may have a good vocabulary and grammar base but speaking is the aspect that we most need to develop.
Overcoming this fear of speaking our new language is extremely important as it will help us to gain confidence in ourselves and will show others that they can speak to us in their native language.
Today let’s look at a few great tips
that can help you overcome your fear of speaking English or a different
language to other people:
1. Accept that you are going to make mistakes and learn from them
People make mistakes all the time,
especially when speaking a new language. Don’t be sad or feel
disappointed if you make mistakes; it’s part of the process of improving
your speaking. Once you have made a mistake, correct it and carry on.
As Albert Einstein said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your
balance, you must keep moving”.
2. Ask for help
Once you have started speaking
English, don’t be afraid to ask people questions about how to say or
pronounce something. Most of the time people will be more than happy to
help you if you have any questions. They may not be so happy if you ask
them grammar questions as they may not know the answers themselves but
I’m sure there will be no problem with vocabulary and pronunciation
questions!
3. Learn some survival phrases or sentences
It’s a great idea to learn some set
phrases or answers for certain questions in English. For example, if you
don’t understand what someone says to you, say things like “I’m sorry,
could you repeat that?” or “I’m sorry, I didn’t understand what you
said”, phrases you have already memorised. This is a great way of being
honest with yourself and also learning how to react to situations or
questions which may take you by surprise.
4. Don’t be shy!
One of non-native speakers’ biggest
problems is being too shy to speak. This can be the biggest hurdle for a
lot of people. Be aware though that most people speak more than one
language and know how difficult it is to learn a new one. Also, most
people really don’t even notice if you say something wrong or if you are
too shy; most of the time we have false perceptions of what others may
think when really nothing could be further from the truth.
5. Enjoy yourself!
You are learning another language for
a reason so go ahead, have fun, make mistakes and even invent new
words! It’s all part of the process.